
CLEARLAKE, Calif. – Jesse James Spurling, 36, died on Friday, Sept. 30, 2016, at his Clearlake home, surrounded by family and loved ones.
Jesse was born on Nov. 5, 1979.
He attended school in Ukiah, but the first of his three bouts of cancer resulted in him leaving school when he was in his first year of high school, and his subsequent health issues prevented him from returning.
Later, he became a client at People Services, which is dedicated to providing services to people with disabilities and improving their quality of life.
He loved doing volunteer work for North Coast Opportunities and the local senior center, and participated in commodities distribution.
His favorite pastimes included camping and fishing, and other outdoors activities. Rodeos and “anything cowboy” also were favorites. He liked watching sports with his brothers and cooking or shopping with his sisters. Jesse also enjoyed dancing and listening to all kinds of music, but primarily country western.
He was a sweet, loving and generous person. When his sister Dawn was finishing her bachelor's degree, he encouraged her and made her stay focused on her studies by kindly asking her, “Is your homework done?” if he thought she might need a reminder. He attended her graduation this past May.
In June Jesse went with Dawn and several of their friends to Hawaii. It had been one of his longtime dreams to dance the hula with real hula girls. He got to do that and so much more on the trip. Several times during the trip he remarked about the it being a “dream come true.”
When he became ill for the last time, the staff at People Services worked with Jesse’s family to make another dream of his to come true, for him to graduate. He had never had the opportunity to graduate from anything because of his health, yet he had worked hard, always tried his best and continued to learn throughout his life.
Once they started planning, many others joined in, volunteering their time to make this a success. It was complete with cap, gown and tassel. Not only did he receive a diploma but he was also presented with a certificate of appreciation from North Coast Opportunities for all of his volunteer work in Lake County. Afterwards the Lake County band “Fogg” played while everyone celebrated.
Jesse loved life and never sorry for himself. Even when he was ill he was busy trying to take care of those around him. His family said he did not want others to be sad for him.
He was preceded in death by his mother, Linda Goodwin.
Survivors include sisters, Dawn Spurling of Clearlake and Sandie Pickens of Kelseyville; brothers Mike Spurling and Rich Spurling, both of Ukiah; aunt, Freda Spurling of Clearlake; nieces, Fawnell Dale, Emalee Pickens, Taylor Spurling and Heather Young; nephews Cody McLeod, Jake Spurling, Michael Spurling and Robert Spurling; and numerous cousins.
A celebration of life will take place at 2 p.m. Sunday, Oct. 30, at the Clearlake Seventh-day Adventist Church, 14490 Uhl Ave. Requested attire is Hawaiian or something colorful, as he wouldn't want people to wear dark, sad colors.
A small reception with root beer floats and popcorn will be held after the service.
Donations in his memory may be made to People Services Inc. in Clearlake, 4195 Lakeshore Blvd., which did a great deal to help him enjoy a good quality of life.
Cards and messages of condolence for the family may be sent to PO Box 153, Clearlake, CA 95422.
