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Charles R. Marsh. Courtesy photo.

LAKEPORT, Calif. — Charles R. Marsh peacefully passed away July 24, 2021, in Lakeport.

Charles was born July 31, 1943, in San Bernardino, California, and was the second of four children born to Charles C. and Carmen Marsh.

He was married in his early 20s for 20 years to Sheila, with whom he had two beautiful children.

Charles worked as a machinist for the majority of his working years. He was a car, motorcycle and bicycle enthusiast and would always tinker with their mechanics.

After moving to Lakeport in 1992, Charles began repairing bicycles for the local kids and their parents and soon had the name "Bicycle Charlie" bestowed upon him.

Charles was a friendly and extremely outgoing individual and could often be seen around Lake County starting up conversations with just about everybody.

Charles is predeceased by his sister, Wanda; nephew, Tim; and niece, Tammy.

He is survived by his children, Shanahan (Corky) and Cody (Cheryll); three grandchildren, Kaitlyn, Peyton and Grace; sister, Cherie (Ernie); brother, Randy (Bonnie); three nephews (in-law) and three nieces (in-law), (Marilee), (Rodney), Trudy (David), Kenny (Deborah), Kevin (Julia), Danny (Jodi), Jill (David), Brianna (Dustin); 17 great-nephews (in-law) and great-nieces (in-law), Austin, Amanda (Cobie), Mark (Leah), Ryan, Heather, Kylie, Ryan, Brandon, Nicholas, Andrew, Jacob, Alice, Camryn, Ashlee, Anthony, Kristy (Victor), Rick (Neneth) and Troy; three great-great nieces and nephews, Braeden, Addison, Jeremy and Kaylee; and many friends.

In lieu of a funeral service, his family members will have a private celebration of life memorial in the spring of 2022.

Arrangements by Chapel of the Lakes Mortuary, 707-263-0357 or 707-994-5611, or visit www.chapelofthelakes.com.

James A. Smith. Courtesy photo.

James Arthur ‘Jim’ Smith
Feb. 7, 1943 — July 27, 2021

UPPER LAKE, Calif. — Jim Smith, 78, of Upper Lake, passed away July 27, 2021 after battling many health issues.

Jim was a very loving and caring husband, father and Papa to all of his much-loved family.

He leaves behind his wife of 54 years, Marilyn; daughters, Gaylene and Shelly; seven grandchildren; and nine great-grandchildren.

He is predeceased by his loving son, Steven.

Military honors will be held at Upper Lake Cemetery on Tuesday, Aug. 3, at 9:30 a.m. with a memorial service to follow at the Upper Lake Methodist Church at 10:30 a.m.

Arrangements by Chapel of the Lakes Mortuary, 707-263-0357 or 707-994-5611, or visit www.chapelofthelakes.com.

Lyle Graf. Courtesy photo.


"Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation." — Kahlil Gibran

Lyle Wayne Graf, 78, of Georgetown, Texas, passed away at St. David's Medical Center in Austin, Texas, on Oct. 19, 2020.

He was born on Jan. 6, 1942, in Cumberland, Wisconsin, to Marion Albee Graf and Frank Graf.

After graduation from Shell Lake High School in 1960, where he loved his time in basketball, baseball and football, he attended Wisconsin University LaCrosse, where he earned his education degree in 1964. He then enlisted in the US Peace Corps, where he served in Brazil for two years.

At the end of Peace Corps he set up in California, where he used his education to work in schools, the first to be in Sacramento teaching sixth grade. He ascended from there to a Junior High Principal in Sacramento.

During this principalship, he earned his master’s degree at the California State College in Sacramento. He then became superintendent of schools in Diamond Springs, California, in 1975.

For 12 years he remained in Diamond Springs until a higher salary level became his, at which point he earned his Doctorate in Education.

During his superintendency in Santa Rosa, California, following his marriage to Suzanne Joyce Lemke in Lake Tahoe, 1988, he traveled the state for golf tournaments with other superintendents in the Bay Area.

His last district was the most enjoyed; probably because it had two junior highs and one elementary, wherein his office was located. The primary students visited him each day, brought him presents which he shared with them, and wanted to make his office table their "desks."

It was a joyful end to his career, and he had smiling memories from Upper Lake Union Elementary District.

He and Suzanne both retired from education in 2001, when they moved their location to Georgetown, Texas, where they had 19 more happy years with his family, golf, concerts, world travel and Texas friendships.

Wayne is survived by his loving wife, Suzanne; sister, Barbara Hammes of Sheboygan, Wisconsin; brother, Frank Graf Jr.; and his surviving children, two adopted sons, Matthew Michand and his wife, Katherine, of Pflugerville, Texas, Andrew Michel of Austin, Texas; and one daughter, Anita Valoy, of Ithaca, New York. Wayne also adored his two grandchildren, Devin Michand and Abigail Michand.

Norma D. Bethel. Courtesy photo.

LAKE COUNTY, Calif. — Norma D. Bethel (Stone) entered into rest July 20, 2021, after a lengthy illness.

Norma was born in Redding, California, on Oct. 12, 1941, and raised in Dunsmuir, California.

She is predeceased by her mother, Naomi; father, Art; and brother, Donald.

Norma is survived by her husband of 52 years, Henry; three children, Jennifer Maher from Yakima, Washington, and Lance and Todd, both from Lakeport, California; and 11 grandchildren.

She loved the Lord above all and wanted to share this love with as many people as possible, especially children. This dedication led her to share this love with others.

She was also very involved in her community, often holding leadership positions.

She was a lady of many talents, always ready with a smile and a hug to brighten your day.

Visitation will be held from 9 to 10 a.m. Saturday, Aug. 7, at Lucerne Community Church, 5870 E. Hwy 20, Lucerne, with a funeral service at 10 a.m.

Interment will be held at Upper Lake Cemetery.

Arrangements by Chapel of the Lakes Mortuary, 707-263-0357 or 707-994-5611, or visit www.chapelofthelakes.com.

Martha Stokes Panella. Courtesy photo.

Martha Stokes Panella
Oct. 21, 1957 — July 25, 2021

LAKE COUNTY, Calif. — Martha Stokes Panella, born Martha Blanche Stokes and called Muffie all her life, passed away in her sleep at her home on July 25, 2021, succumbing to metastatic breast cancer at age 63.

Family members cared for her in her final weeks and joined together to surround her with love at her passing.

A lifelong resident, Muffie is a beloved member of a Lake County family that extends back multiple generations on both her mother’s side (Monroe and Moore) and father’s side (Keithly).

An aptitude for accounting and attention to detail showed up in her early years, and Muffie worked in the office of her parents’ company, Stokes Ladders, and sold pears in the family’s farm stand to earn money for college.

At California State University, Chico, she earned a Bachelor of Arts degree in business administration, with a minor in nutrition. She worked in the office of Carpenter and Carpenter, CPAs, during the summers and continued there when she graduated and returned to Lake County.

In addition to continuing with the Carpenters and Stokes Ladders, she worked for a period for CPAs Leon Turner and Dan Panella, and in more recent years she worked at Clearlake Redi-Mix and had a number of private clients.

Muffie took real joy in her work and formed many warm relationships through it. She served her clients steadfastly until she recently became unable to work. Her adding machine skills were legendary; she would have won the world championship for no-look speed and accuracy.

The center of Muffie’s world was — and always remained — her children. She married Dan Panella in 1982, and together they had three children: Russell, Greg and Caitlin.

Muffie was the kind of mom who sewed individually designed sleeping bags for her children, baked them birthday cakes in unique shapes, taught them to raise chickens and gather eggs, and showed them in every way that they were loved. To this day, her home is filled with treasures from throughout her children’s lives.

After Dan Panella’s life was cut short at age 44, Muffie moved her family from Finley to a property on Bottle Rock Road, where she built a new home with a swimming pool and large shop. Her home and shop became the gathering area for her three children’s friends and their projects. During this time she was married to Greg Campbell, also of Kelseyville.

Muffie always had a smile and an open door, a generous heart, and a full refrigerator for hungry teens and twenty-somethings. In recent years, she treasured her time with her four young grandchildren.

Throughout her life, Muffie remained part of a tight knit group of friends from grade school, hosting summer reunions at her home. Everyone — family, friends and colleagues — found her to be exceptionally generous, willing to lend a hand and put others’ problems before her own.

She brought a high level of efficiency, reliability and organizational skill to any task she took on, whether it was organizing the vendors at the annual Kelseyville Pear Festival or preparing payrolls for businesses.

Muffie is survived by her son, Russell Panella; her son, Greg Panella, daughter-in-law, Allison Panella, and grandchildren Audrey, Daniel and Jocelyn; her daughter, Caitlin Panella, her partner Chris Carlino, and granddaughter Finley.

She is preceded in death by her father, Russell Stokes; her sister, Sheryl; and her niece, Sherita; and is survived by her mother, Janice Stokes; brother, Syd Stokes and sister-in-law Diane Henderson; sister, Laura Stokes and sister-in-law, Amy Schliftman; brother, Pete Stokes, sister-in-law, Heather Stokes, nephews, Peter and Graham, and niece, Sylvie; niece, Marcela and nephew, Javier, as well as her companion, Bill Fleming, and an extended family of cousins.

A celebration of Muffie’s life will be held on Saturday, Aug. 14, from 2 to 5 p.m., at the home of Janice Stokes, located at 2970 Merritt Rd, Kelseyville, CA 95451.

To honor her generosity and faith in family, cook a nice meal and enjoy it with your family or share it with a friend.

Please direct any questions to Allison Panella, 707-483-2383.

Kenneth Kelley. Courtesy photo.

KELSEYVILLE, Calif. — Kenneth (Ken) Kelley, 74, of Kelseyville passed away suddenly July 21, 2021.

Beloved husband, father, grandfather and brother is survived by his wife of 35 years, Karen; children, Patrick and Theresa; stepchildren, Suzanne and Cheryl; sisters, Joan and Bonnie; brother, Glen; seven grandchildren; and former spouse, Shari.

Ken was born in Central City, Nebraska.

He joined the Navy and worked as a carpenter most of his life.

He is preceded in death by his parents, Clifford and Lillian (Veed); brothers, Dennis and Mike; and sister, Janet.

A celebration of life will be held Aug. 15 from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. at their home in Kelseyville.

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